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BE A S.M.A.R.T WOMAN

If you wanna be successful at dating, you have to be a S.M.A.R.T Woman.
But i’m not talkin’ about your intelligence Girl.
You already got that on lock 😉
I’m talkin’ about you committing to be a woman of Strategy👉🏾Mindset👉🏾Action👉🏾Responsibility & 👉🏾Trust when it comes to your love life.
Lemmie break it all down
S.M.A.R.T stands for
✅Strategy
Religion teaches us that when we make plans, God laughs at them. Scripture teaches us that while the outcomes and victories belong to God, we must still plan, prepare, and perform with wisdom.
A woman with a dating strategy has a direction that gives her measurable results toward marriage.
✅Mindset
While dating you have to prepare to feel:
😖Stress
😖Disappointment
😖Fear
😖Negative thoughts
😖Regret
😖Infatuation
The right frame of mind navigates these feelings appropriately. The wrong mind will have you bitter, frustrated, and quitting altogether.
A woman who manages her mindset effectively improves her love life significantly.
✅Action
Faith without works is dead and if you want marriage, you need to take real, practical action towards it. Even when you’re scared, frustrated and ready to quit, you still need to ACT.
A woman who takes consistent action towards her relationship goals (in spite of her feelings) will experience massive results in her love life.
✅Responsibility
The same way you took responsibility for your education and career, is the SAME way you have to take responsibility for your love life. You can rely on God to provide the seed, but you have to be the one to plant it and till the land so you can reap the harvest.
A woman who takes responsibility for her love life has the power to manifest the type of relationship she desires.
✅Trust
The beliefs/behaviors that keep you in the same cycles year after year are ingrained in you and won’t be uprooted overnight. There’s a process to progress and you have to trust the process, even when things seem like they aren’t going your way.
Women who trust the process embrace their dating journey instead of despising it.
Dassit 
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